This is a letter for you, my dear friend
You walked into my life like the little hurricane you are. So active and crazy and smiling. Always with great references, nice books and awesome music. Always ready to sit down and listen to whatever crap I had to say. Or just sit there and watch me cry, holding my hand.
I’m sorry I failed you. I should have protected you and reasoned with you while I had time. I knew what was going to happen and I wasn’t strong enough to stop you. I hope you can forgive me one day.
I met a very lively girl, so grand and smart. I fell in love with you immediately and I knew you would be my friend. More than that, a confident, a partner and a younger guide. I saw your strength and your desire to live your life to the fullest. I saw a little of me in you. That should have been my first warning.
You say you don’t, but you give yourself just as much as I do. You say you don’t, but you like caring just as much as I do. I just got older and learned to not care when people call me tacky. You are one of the biggest hearts I have ever met and you don’t see it. You should look at yourself the way we look at you.
But I saw this lion hearted girl fade away. I saw you become ill and languish right before my eyes. I’m sorry I couldn’t avoid it. I knew everything it was going to happen and I couldn’t stop it and take you out. My biggest desire is to suck the pain out of you – get your anxiety and make it mine. Dry your tears and cry an ocean for you. I know it is hurting and I know you feel this has no end – trust me, there is an end. Even if we have to make one.
I know how much it hurts and how your heart feels it will never go back to what it was. But it will. This was just a blip in your beautiful and incredible life and I promise you one day you will wake up and all of this will be just a blur. I just hope you know how great you are and how brilliant your future will be, because you are, even suffering, living today.
Remember you. Remember the girl I first met. She is there, somewhere. Find her and fight for her, bring her back. I will help you every step of the way – I won’t fail you again.
I love you.